Episode 1 ( Reproductive Health
Issues)
Prior to marrying, if asked on
our plans to be pregnant, I answer a resounding “1 year after marriage” while Mr.
Replied “Immediately”. Well his manly ego was on high hopes to conceive ASAP. 4
months into the marriage, the family idea got to me. Especially that I already
had reproductive health issues, I had lesser chance of conceiving than most
ladies out there, as most OBs would say to scare the heck out of me.
“Panganak na uy basin dili naka
makaanak madugay “
In English "You should conceive now or else you might not
be able bear one when you get older "
Super nega naman nila di’ba ,
kainis . The idea of not being able to have a family depresses me, minsan nga
umiyak ako at sinabihan si hubby ko (then bf pa) na what if hindi kami magkaanak. Sabi naman
niya happy naman kami kahit kaming dalawa lang. But iba parin talaga if we have
a baby , that’s how I always imagined myself kasi. You see ,coming from a
broken family, one of my greatest dream kasi is having a happy family of my own.
Luckily I met Dra. Elena Ranices,
who had a different point of view than most doctors I visited. She was recommended
by my officemate who had her as an OB for her first pregnancy. I also heard
from another co-worker that Doctora has a personalized approach in managing
patients ranging from pregos to cancer patients.
I visited her prior to the
wedding with my good friend Alyssa who at that time was an expectant mom. I had
two concerns at that time; (1) I am afraid that my monthly period falls on my
honeymoon night and most importantly (2) Will I be able to conceive .
For concern no. 1 doc was amused
by my concern. Well doc bummer naman yun di’ba? But she advised to let my body
do its thing, wag ko daw pakialaman cycle ko or else may consequences. Hai naku
ok ok. Thankfully hindi naman nataon sa
wedding night yung period. Ayee.... hahaha.
For concern no.2 doc was more
serious on this note na. She asked for my age and health story. Salamat nalang
at saksakan ng positive vibes si doc , according to her , at my age this should
not be an issue despite of previous operations and cyst and minor myoma experienced.
But just to be at the safe side wag na daw ako mag paabot past 28 before I conceive.
Just to confirm she requested a TVS.
As per checking ni doc sa TVS all
was A-O-K. Wag na daw ako magalala kahit di naman 100% si RS magkakaanak pa
naman daw ako. Hearing this from a professional was a great relief.
Lessons mga te :
1.
Anyone na
nagkaperiod na, sexually active or not, you should have an idea of reproductive
health. Generally if 18 kana you should be visiting the OB na. I had my first
reproductive health issue at 15. Breast Cyst akala ko mamamatay na ako (OA na
bata). Yun pala i am having troubles with my RS pala.
2.
Find and OB Gyne who you are comfortable with.
You will be talking of sensitive matters, it’s important that you can fully
disclose your condition with the doctor . Prior to doctora Ranises I found
others as offensive, insensitive or not trust worthy. Sorry ha , pero dumaan
talaga ako sa doctors na ganun yung ending ayaw ko na eraise ang concerns ko or
hindi ko na sila binabalikan.
3.
Listen to your body. Don’t take little bumps and
nicks forgranted or they might turn-out as big health issues. I have seen a
breast cancer patient in the flesh. It started with this small lump and it
ended up as a malignant tumor. She was a very inspiring and kind hearted woman
who left two beautiful kids behind. Nakakaiyak naaalaala ko si Ma’am Eucie ,may
she rest in peace.
I hope you picked up something useful my from RS issue
I will be mumbling more on Reproductive Health and Preggy
Journey on succeeding blogs.
Details of my God sent OB
Dra. Elena T. Ranises
Capitol University Medical Center
Gusa, Cagayan de Oro
Monday to Friday ( 10 AM to 4 PM )Saturday ( 10 AM to 12nn)
Note : Do come earlier if you plan to visit her on Wednesdays
, she usually has a bible study session on that day around 3 pm. I am usually charged P300.00 to P350.00 for consultations.
Sha sha . hangang dito lang muna. Until next time .
-Lady V
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